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The expectations you’re trying to live up to are the prison you’ve built. It’s time to bust out.
When was the last time you:
- Did something just for you?
- Told someone about the pain you’re feeling inside?
- Asked for help when you needed it?
- Didn’t get judged for showing the slightest bit of vulnerability?
- Asked for help when you needed it?

This is my experience of men…
We don’t share what we’re feeling, because it feels like no one cares about a guy’s problems — about our problems.
When we finally do work up the courage to share, we feel judged and tell ourselves, “I’m never doing that again.”
We try to live up to the expectation of being everyone else’s rock. Holding everyone else’s problems as our own.
LIGHTEN THE LOAD, BROTHER

If you’re truly committed to thriving in every aspect of your life
I can help get you there.
I’ll tell you everything you don’t want to hear. I’ll hold you accountable to the man you want to be. And together we’ll work through the scary and uncomfortable shit to forge the life you want – even if you don’t know what that is yet.
My Approach
If you’re truly committed to thriving in every aspect of your life, I’m the guy who will get you there. I’ll tell you everything you don’t want to hear. I’ll hold you accountable to the man you want to be. And together we’ll work through the scary and uncomfortable shit to forge the life you want – even if you don’t know what that is yet.
AWARENESS + ACTION + ACCOUNTABILITY
= Abundance
{Results beyond anything you could ever imagine}
MEN’S PROGRAMS
MEN’S PROGRAMS
An 8-Week Men’s Group Program
8 Weeks  |  7 Experiments  |  6 Men
Break free from expectations
Tear down the ego, arrogance, pride, self-doubt, and self-sabotaging behavior
Rebuild from your true and authentic self
Forge your purpose. Live with intention.
1:1 COACHING
REDEFINING THE MAN IN YOU
6-Month Adventure. Just me and you brother.
We’ll start by getting some awareness as to what’s going on – even if you don’t know what that is yet.
We’ll build a plan and I’ll challenge you to take action on behalf of yourself and your goals.
And together, we’ll transform your relationship to everything: to yourself, to others, to your relationship, to your career
COUPLE’S COACHING
LIVING IN LOVE INCUBATOR
Transform Your Relationship
Identify the unconscious patterns that are creating conflict in your relationships.
Get cutting edge tools for navigating emotional turmoil so you and your partner can thrive.
Learn how to use your relationship as a powerful path of growth and evolution.
The Torch
Illuminating the Path
Weekly Virtual Men’s Group
This weekly virtual men’s group will be hosted and led by Bob Conlin and Alex Terranova.
The primary purpose of this group is to provide a safe space for men to be seen, challenged, and heard while doing this in a community with other men. It is also a place to connect and hopefully make some friends.
We are committed to growing a brotherhood of growth-oriented men.
Hear from the men who ditched expectations to create their legendary life.






Detach your worth from expectations.
And experience what it’s like to be truly free and happy.
What others say a man should be
Men don’t cry.
Be tough.
Your worth is defined by how much money you make.
Be self-sufficient. Asking for help is weak.
Don’t be vulnerable. You’ll just be judged for it.
Be a rock. Carry others’ problems and neglect your own.
ditch expectations. get uncomfortable.
Forge the life you deserve.
Be fearless with your emotions.
Take risks and go after what you want. Stand confidently in your values.
Live with purpose and intention.
Find strength in being vulnerable.
Prioritize you and share the fullest version of yourself with others.
Hey, I’m Bob
I’m a certified ontological life and relationship coach and the author of the upcoming book, “Why My Relationships Suck: How to Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart.”
I’ve transformed my life from one of addiction, toxic relationships, and self-sabotaging behavior to a life of purpose and intention. I love my life, and I love my wife and my son like nobody’s business.
My philosophy is that we are in relationship to everything and through the growth of self, loving others, and bringing our full power to our careers we can create a fulfilling and adventurous life of intention and purpose.
I support men like you to find their own purpose and become a f*cking legend in their own right.
LET’S GET AFTER IT.

Get the support you deserve (but don’t want to ask for).
I went from feeling dead inside to being fucking lit up by life. How? I stopped living to please others and prioritized my passion and purpose.
You can do better than living an okay life. Let’s get you on the path to living your legendary one.