May 4, 2018

What I do…

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What I do…

I am a coach.

I support my clients in getting what they want outside of circumstance. I provide a safe space to dream as big as one wants and imagine what’s possible outside of the doubt, the fear, the knowing how it’s going to go based on the past, and all the stuff we put in the way of what we really want. Yep, all that stuff. You know what I’m talking about here. This happens all while connecting you to your highest and best. The best called forth consistently and reliably.

Retired Dallas Cowboys coach Tom Landry summed it up nicely.

“A coach is someone who tells you what you don’t want to hear, who has you see what you don’t want to see, so you can be who you have always known you could be.”

Consider coaching simply as a support structure. An intense, in your face, call it like I see it, support structure. Much of what I do is mirror back to you what you are saying and who you are “being”. My specific training is as an ontological coach. Ontology is the study of being. Who we are, at the core, heart, spirit level of love. Who we are before life “happened” to us and we lost a bit of our shine. This is the most powerful aspect of our coaching. Being a mirror that is reflecting your Being.

The reflection.

You say you want this but think, act, say, and do that? Huh? What’s up with that? That’s where we get curious and unpack this way of “being”. The breakdown in saying one thing and doing the opposite. This creates a gap and we coach to the gap. We create actions. We create milestones. We make BIG DECLARATIONS that have my clients create breakthrough results in love, in family, in career, and ultimately withIN themselves.

But wait, hold up. Stop.

This is also where and when it gets a little uncomfortable. I believe that everything you want and don’t already have exists somewhere outside of your comfort zone. Otherwise, you would already have it or be experiencing it, right? So….You walk to the edge and I push. Push to make the difficult decisions, to leave the dying relationship, to quit the job that is sucking the life out of you, to finally look in the mirror at all those extra pounds put on by living in shame and blame for who or who you are not (being). This will not be easy but it will be beautiful. You will be loved the whole way through.

Something magical happens when you move towards your dreams. YOUR DREAMS.

I don’t have your answers or the “ten-step process to ___________”. Nor do I make any promises. This is your work. Anyone who claims or promises anything is full of it.

Your life is your responsibility and you have your answers. You may have just forgotten. I help my clients remember. When you get connected to your excellence through “Being” the clarity of your desired life experience opens up. Big Time. If any of this has you curious about what coaching can provide you let’s connect. This is my life’s work and I love to share it. The best way to share how coaching “works” is to be coached. Complimentary coaching sessions are always available.