Alchemize outdated masculinity into a

Legendary, Purposeful, Life.

Forge your purpose. Love unapologetically. Be your own legend.



Jump off that hamster wheel.


Be fierce in relationship.


Confidently know who you are.

…because you deserve a life well lived


You were not born to pay bills

Too often I see men only scratching the surface of what we actually want because we’ve been too busy in pursuit of the next checkbox: get a good job, land the perfect girlfriend, buy a home, create a family…

Many of us have that life and yet, we’re just going through the motions. Life starts to feel “good enough” at best and numb at worst.

Despite what we’ve been taught as men, the expectations of others are not your responsibility to uphold.

Set those expectations on fire and watch ‘em burn.

Men often choose a crushing sense of self-sufficiency over brotherhood because we don’t know any differently. We don’t even know support is an option…because we’ve had drilled into us that the way to be a man is “I’m fine” and “I got this.”

I was you. And I am you.

For years I chased the things that were expected of me, the things that were supposed to make me happy: a stable 6-figure job. A title. A cool car. A hot girlfriend. You know the list already.

Despite the things, I wasn’t happy. I knew I wasn’t being the guy I wanted to be. I knew there was something more. But I didn’t know what it was or how to get it.

The thing that changed everything for me (besides getting sober) was letting go of my addiction to living up to other people’s expectations and finding my purpose in life.


Get the support you need...

I went from feeling dead inside to being lit up. How? I stopped living to please others and prioritized my passion and purpose.

You too can do better than living an okay life. Let’s get you on the path to living your legendary one.

Life to your legend. Death to your fears.


My Approach

If you’re truly committed to thriving in every aspect of your life, I’m the guy who will get you there. I’ll tell you everything you don’t want to hear. I’ll hold you accountable to the man you want to be. And together we’ll work through the scary and uncomfortable shit to forge the life you want – even if you don’t know what that is yet.


= Abundance

{Results beyond anything you could ever imagine}

Men’s Program

1:1 Coaching

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About Bob

I’m a certified ontological life and relationship coach and the author of the upcoming book, “Why My Relationships Suck: How to Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart.”

I’ve transformed my life from one of addiction, toxic relationships, and self-sabotaging behavior to a life of purpose and intention. I love my life, and I love my wife and my son like nobody’s business.

My philosophy is that we are in relationship to everything and through the growth of self, loving others, and bringing our full power to our careers we can create a fulfilling and adventurous life of intention and purpose. I support men like you find their own purpose and become a f*cking legend in their own right.

Let’s get after it

  Bob Conlin


You’ve been trying to live up to the expectations of others rather than living the life you deserve.

Why My Relationships Suck

How to Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart